Conflict Management, Conflict Transformation, Mediation & Managing Polarization Resources
Book Resources
- Allain, Brian, ed. How to Heal Our Divides: A Practical Guide. Independently published, 2021.
- Allain, Brian, ed. How to Heal Our Divides Volume 2: An Abundance of Opportunities. Independently published, 2022.
- Bowling, Daniel, and David A. Hoffman. Bringing Peace Into the Room: How the Personal Qualities of the Mediator Impact the Process of Conflict Resolution. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass, 2003.
- Deutsch, Morton. The Resolution of Conflict: Constructive and Destructive Process. New Haven, CT: Yale University Press, 1973.
- Emerson, Brian and Kelly Lewis. Navigating Polarities: Using Both/And Thinking to Lead Transformation. Washington, DC: Paradoxical Press, 2019.
- Fisher, Roger and Scott Brown. Getting Together: Building Relationships as We Negotiate. London: Penguin Books, 1988.
- Fisher, Roger and William Ury and Bruce Patton. Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In. 2nd ed. New York: Penguin Group, 1991.
- Heffernan, Margaret. Wilful Blindness: Why We Ignore the Obvious at Our Peril. New York: Bloomsbury, 2012.
- Johnson, Barry A. Polarity Management: Identifying and Managing Unsolvable Problems. 2nd ed. HRD Press,1996.
- Kaur, Valarie. See No Stranger: A Memoir and Manifesto of Revolutionary Love. One World, 2021.
- Lasater, Judith H. and Ike K. Lasater. What We Say Matters: Practicing Nonviolent Communication. Berkeley, CA: Rodmell Press, 2009.
- Lederach, John P. Preparing for Peace: Conflict Transformation Across Cultures. Syracuse, NY: Syracuse University Press, 1996.
- Lederach, John P. Little Book of Conflict Transformation: Clear Articluation of The Guiding Principles By A Pioneer In The Field. Intercourse, PA: Good Books,2003.
- Mannix, Kathryn. Listen: How to Find the Words for Tender Conversations. William Collins, 2022.
- Mayer, Bernard S. The Conflict Paradox: Seven Dilemmas at the Core of Disputes. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass, a Wiley Brand, 2015.
- Mayer, Bernard S. The Dynamics of Conflict: A Guide to Engagement and Intervention. 2nd ed. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass, a Wiley Brand, 2012.
- Moore, Christopher W. The Mediation Process: Practical Strategies for Resolving Conflict. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass, 2003.
- Pranis, Kay. The Little Book of Circle Processes: A New/Old Approach to Peacemaking. Intercourse, PA: Good Books, 2005.
- Pries, Betty. The Space Between Us: Conversations about Transforming Conflict. Harrisonburg, VA: Herald Press, 2021.
- Ripley, Amanda. High Conflict: Why We Get Trapped and How We Get Out. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2022.
- Stone, Douglas, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen. Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most. New York: Penguin Books, 1999.
- Stone, Douglas and Sheila Hann. Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well. New York: Penguin Books, 2014.
- Ury, William L., Jeanne M. Brett, and Stephen B. Goldberg. Getting Disputes Resolved: Designing Systems to Cut the Costs of Conflict. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass Publishers, 1988.
- Ury, William. The Third Side: Why We Fight and How We Can Stop. New York: Penguin Books, 2000.
- Van Oudenhoven, Jualla. Violence Against Children: A Rights-Based Discourse. Garant Publishers,2016.
Online Resources
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Complicating the Narratives-https://thewholestory.solutionsjournalism.org/complicating-the-narratives-b91ea06ddf63
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Edward Muzio: Ladder of Inference- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K9nFhs5W8o8
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Family Systems Theory. The Bowen Center for the Study of the Family. https://www.thebowencenter.org/core-concepts-diagrams
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Karpman Drama Triangle- https://karpmandramatriangle.com/
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Krista Tippett interviewing Amanda Ripley, author of “Complicating the Narrative” and “High Conflict”- https://open.spotify.com/episode/1xKxDuEkUq3mQLgNQxQiSg?si=JZMdBX1DQyCLO-NiA9EvSQ
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Margaret Heffernan: Dare to disagree- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PY_kd46RfVE
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Valarie Kaur: 3 Lessons of Revolutionary Love in a time of rage- https://valariekaur.com/ted-valarie-kaur/